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Bisexual Dating in Your City
Twelve cities, six countries, one discreet place to meet.
My Bisexual Secret members live mostly in the UK, the USA, Canada, South Africa, Australia and New Zealand. The biggest groups are in Ontario, Greater London, Gauteng, California and the Western Cape. Pick your city below for local members, the age mix, where the scene is and how to meet safely.
| Country | Members | Biggest groups |
|---|---|---|
| UK | 4,400+ | Greater London, the West Midlands, Essex |
| USA | 3,800+ | California, Texas, Florida |
| Canada | 1,700+ | Ontario, Alberta, British Columbia |
| South Africa | 1,000+ | Gauteng, the Western Cape |
| Australia | 900+ | New South Wales, Queensland, Victoria |
| New Zealand | 300+ | Auckland |
Bi Singles in the UK, Canada and the USA
- Bisexual dating in London
More than 650 members across Greater London, the most women of any region, plus Soho, Bi Pride UK and a monthly bi social.
- Bisexual dating in Manchester
More than 140 members across Greater Manchester, Canal Street on the doorstep and BiPhoria, a bi group since 1994.
- Bisexual dating in Birmingham
More than 170 members across the West Midlands, the Gay Village on Hurst Street and a Pride that turns 30 in 2027.
- Bisexual dating in Toronto
Ontario has more than 750 members, the biggest region on the site; Toronto adds Church-Wellesley Village and the Toronto Bi+ Network.
- Bisexual dating in Vancouver
More than 250 members across British Columbia, Davie Village's pink benches and BiFocus, Vancouver's bi group.
- Bisexual dating in New York
More than 170 members across New York State, the Village bars round Stonewall and BiRequest's monthly social.
- Bisexual dating in Los Angeles
California has more than 400 members, the most of any US state, with West Hollywood, Silver Lake and amBi LA.
Bi Singles in South Africa and Australia
- Bisexual dating in Johannesburg
More than 440 members across Gauteng, a younger crowd than most, Melville's 7th Street and amBi Johannesburg.
- Bisexual dating in Cape Town
More than 170 members in Cape Town itself, more than 300 across the Western Cape, and De Waterkant for the first drink.
- Bisexual dating in Sydney
More than 250 members across New South Wales, the most couples of any Australian state, and Oxford Street at Mardi Gras.
- Bisexual dating in Melbourne
More than 200 members across Victoria, more than 60 in Melbourne itself, and Collingwood and Fitzroy for a night out.
- Bisexual dating in Brisbane
More than 200 members across Queensland, Fortitude Valley and New Farm, and Brisbane Pride every October.
Local Without Giving Yourself Away
Your profile shows only your nearest town or city, never your street. Your daily matches weigh up distance, and VIP members can search by city and set how far they are willing to travel. If you are away for a weekend, you can look around where you are staying and arrange a bisexual meet there.
Not in one of these cities? Members live in plenty of other places, from Alberta and Texas to Essex and KwaZulu-Natal. Read bisexual dating near me for how local search works, then our safety advice before you meet.
Local Questions, Quick Answers
Which city has the most My Bisexual Secret members?
London, with more than 650 members across Greater London. Ontario, home to Toronto, is the biggest region of all, with more than 750.
Can I see members near me before I join?
Each city page shows a few members from that area, aged 25 to 55. To see more and send messages, join and set your nearest town.
Will other members see where I live?
Only your nearest town or city. Your address and exact location are never shown.