Bisexual Women: Find Fun With Men, Women or Both
Flirt on your terms, with privacy built in.
Bi, Curious and in Charge
Bisexual women can meet men, women, couples or any mix on My Bisexual Secret, where more than 500 women are members. You choose who to meet, your name and street stay private, and anyone who bothers you can be blocked in a tap. Bi curious and never been with a woman? You are welcome too.
Women’s biggest age group here is 35 to 44, just over a third of them, followed by 45 to 54 and then 25 to 34. The UK has the most women, more than 250, and the USA more than 100. See bisexual dating in the UK or the USA, or the local picture in London and Manchester.
Who Do You Fancy? Pick One, Two or All Three
Flirting With Women
Tick Female and say near the top of your profile that you want to meet women, so the right ones spot it quickly. If it would be your first time, say that too: honesty takes the pressure off, and our guide to a first bi experience helps you plan one you will enjoy.
Flirting With Men
If men are on your list, you will have plenty of profiles to look through, since most members are men. Be specific about what you want and your time goes on the right ones. Wondering who they are? Have a look at our page for bisexual men.
Flirting With Couples
Tick Couple and couples will show up in your matches; leave it unticked if a pair is not your thing. See how bisexual couples set things up here.
Privacy That Keeps You in Control
Being discreet is really about choice: who sees what, and when.
- Your username does the talking. Other members never see your real name or email address.
- Your town, never your street. Your location appears only as your nearest town or city.
- Block in one tap. A blocked member can no longer message you or see your profile.
- No surprise pictures. Explicit images are blurred with a warning, so you decide whether to look.
- Moderators on watch. Photos and text get screened on upload, by AI and by people, and you can report anything from inside the site.
You also get a warning if someone tries to move your chat to WhatsApp or another app, a favourite trick of scammers, and with VIP your bank statement never shows the site’s name. The safety page has the full list.
Keep Your Inbox the Way You Like It
With so many men on the site, a clear profile pays off. Say who you want to hear from and what you are after, whether that is a woman for a first kiss, a man for something casual or simply good chat. Anyone who ignores it has told you all you need to know.
Then be choosy. Reply to the messages you like, leave the rest, and block anyone who will not take the hint. Each profile also carries a rating based on how that person behaves and what others say about them, which helps you judge who deserves your time.
When a Couple Asks You to Be Their Third
Only say yes if you want to. If you are interested, talk to both of them before you meet and agree what is on and off the table. If you are not, a polite no is enough, and blocking is fine if they keep asking.
Honest Answers, No Small Print
How many women are on My Bisexual Secret?
More than 500 women are members, alongside more than 700 couples, and nearly nine in ten members overall are men.
Can I look for women and men at the same time?
Yes. Tick Female and Male under who you want to meet, and Couple as well if you like. You can choose all of them.
Can I join if I’m bi curious?
Of course. Curious is reason enough. Add the Bicurious or First Time Encounter tag so people know where you are starting from, and see our bi curious dating page.
Is there a bisexual women dating app?
You do not need a separate one. My Bisexual Secret works in any phone browser, and pinning it to your home screen gives you an icon that opens it in one tap. Our bisexual dating app page shows how.
Can I find bi women near me?
Yes. Each profile gives a nearest town or city, and distance is one of the things your daily matches weigh up, so women close by are easy to find. VIP members can also search a particular city or radius. More on finding bi singles near you.
Your Rules, Your Secret
Tick men, women or both, keep your name to yourself and say hello when it suits you.
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