Bisexual Dating South Africa: Discreet Fun on Your Phone
A younger crowd, a username and your secret kept.
Looking for a bisexual dating app in South Africa? My Bisexual Secret works straight from your phone's browser, and more than 1,000 members there have joined. Most are men, with more than 50 women and more than 20 couples, and the biggest groups are in Gauteng, the Western Cape and KwaZulu-Natal.
Bi Dating That Fits in Your Pocket
Pop it on your home screen and it sits there like any app, minus the store download. Your username does the talking, so your real name stays off your profile, and a VIP charge shows on your bank statement without the site's name. Setting it up on an iPhone or an Android phone? Our bisexual dating app page covers both.
Plenty of Choice in Gauteng and the Cape
Gauteng
More than 440 members, the third-biggest region on the whole site, with nearly 200 of them in Johannesburg, Pretoria and the towns around them. Our Johannesburg page has the local picture.
The Western Cape
More than 300 members, and more than 170 in Cape Town itself. Read our Cape Town page before your first drink.
KwaZulu-Natal
More than 100 members, more than 30 of them in Durban.
Working in Gauteng but living in the Cape? With VIP you can search either city. Somewhere else? Distance counts in your daily matches, and the places page lists all our city guides.
The Youngest Crowd on the Site
South Africa is the youngest country on the site: a third of members are 25 to 34, and more than six in ten are under 45.
Members in South Africa by age.
Out, Equal and Looked After
Two people of any gender have been able to marry or form a civil partnership in South Africa since the Civil Union Act came into force on 30 November 2006.
In Pretoria, OUT LGBT Well-being, which calls itself South Africa's second-oldest LGBTQ+ organisation, runs health services for gay, bi and other men who have sex with men, including the OUT Clinic. In Cape Town, Triangle Project runs a helpline offering counselling, information and referrals on mental health, sexual health and wellbeing.
PrEP at Your Local Clinic
PrEP is now available in every public primary health care clinic, according to the Department of Health. It's a daily pill for people who test HIV-negative, and taken daily it has been shown to cut HIV infection by more than 90%. You go back every three months for an HIV test and a new supply. Think you've been exposed? PEP has to start within 72 hours. The National AIDS Helpline is on 0800 012 322, or on WhatsApp at 0600 123 456.
Meeting someone for the first time? Read our safety advice first.
Before You Make Your Move
Are there bisexual dating apps in South Africa?
My Bisexual Secret works like one: it runs in your phone's browser and sits on your home screen once you add it, with no store download. More than 1,000 members in South Africa have joined.
Is there bi dating in Johannesburg and Cape Town?
Yes. Gauteng has more than 440 members and the Western Cape more than 300, and both cities have pages of their own on the site.
Are South African members younger?
They are. South African members have the youngest age mix on the site, and 25 to 34 is their biggest age group.
Can I meet bi men in South Africa discreetly?
Yes. Most members there are men, everyone goes by a username, and your profile names a town or city, never your street. You can block anyone instantly, too.
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