Two of you, one profile
Bisexual Couples: Meet Bi Singles and Other Couples
Agree what you want together, then go looking.
Join More Than 700 Couples
Bisexual couples join My Bisexual Secret together, with one shared Couple profile, and choose who to meet: men, women, other pairs or any combination. More than 700 couples are members. You agree the rules between you, keep one discreet username, and meet people who know from the start that you come as a pair.
Most couples here are past 35 and the biggest age band is 45 to 54, so a couple in their thirties, forties or fifties will find plenty of pairs at the same stage.
The UK has more than 250 couples and the USA more than 200, and our country pages for the UK and the USA go further. Australia has nearly 100, most of them in New South Wales and Victoria; see our pages on Sydney, Melbourne and Australia.
Pick Who You Want to Meet
Sign up as a Couple and the form asks who you are looking for. Tick as many as you like, then use your profile to fill in the detail.
| You want to meet | Tick | Say on your profile |
|---|---|---|
| A bi man | Male | Whether he would be meeting you both |
| A bi woman | Female | That you are both keen to meet her |
| Another couple | Couple | How you like to start, such as drinks for four |
| Any of them | All three | Which you would like to meet first |
Your daily matches take those choices into account, along with your preferred ages and distance. Here for something casual? Our page on bisexual hookups covers it, and the bisexual dating app page shows how to pin the site to either of your phones.
Agree Your Rules Before You Look
A little planning makes the fun easier for both of you. Sit down together and settle:
- who you are looking for, and whether that could change;
- whether you always meet people together, or one of you may meet someone alone;
- what is off limits, and a signal either of you can use to call time;
- who answers messages, since you share one inbox;
- how you will check in with each other afterwards.
Put the parts that matter on your profile, so nobody wastes a chat. And if one of you has second thoughts at any stage, the rule is simple: you stop and talk.
Be the Couple Singles Want to Meet
A man or woman meeting a couple is taking a leap. Say you are a pair in your first message, make sure you both join the conversation, and talk to them as a person with their own wants, never as an accessory to your plans.
Their limits count as much as yours. If your rules change, tell them before the day, not on the night, and if it is not working for one of you, say so kindly and end it. For a single’s view, read our pages for bisexual women and bisexual men.
Private for Both of You
One shared username means neither of your real names is on show, and the only place shown is your nearest town or city. VIP payments leave the site’s name off your bank statement. Look for the blue tick on the people you talk to, meet somewhere public the first time, and find the rest on our safety page.
Plan It Together, Enjoy It Together
Do we need two profiles?
No. You join once, choose Couple, and share one profile and one username between you.
Can a couple look for a bi man or a bi woman?
Yes. Tick Male, Female or both when you sign up. A bi man or woman will see straight away that you are a couple, so say what you are hoping for in a line or two.
Are there older bisexual couples on the site?
Yes. Couples join at every age from their twenties up, and more than half are aged 35 to 54.
We have been together for years. Can we join as a couple?
Of course. Together for twenty years or twenty days, every pair signs up the same way: as a Couple.
Is it OK if only one of us is bi?
Yes. A Couple profile is about what you want to do together, not the labels you use. Say on your profile who is curious about what, so nobody has to guess.
Two Secrets Are Better Than One
Set up your Couple profile together, agree the rules and start saying hello.
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