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My Bisexual Secret vs Feeld for Bi Curious Dating
Two places to explore your curiosity, and the kind of dater each one fits.
Feeld suits open-minded people of every gender and sexuality who want an app, room to link profiles with several partners and a very big crowd. My Bisexual Secret suits bi and bi curious men, women and couples who want a discreet site made for bisexual fun, with nothing to download.
Spot the Difference in Seconds
Feeld’s App Store listing calls it Open & Curious Dating, open to all genders and sexual identities. My Bisexual Secret sticks to bi and bi curious fun, kept discreet.
| The point | My Bisexual Secret | Feeld |
|---|---|---|
| Made for | Bi and bi curious men, women and couples, 18+ | Open-minded people of all genders and sexualities, 18+ |
| Bi focus | Bisexual dating is the whole site | 20+ sexualities to choose from |
| Couples | One shared Couple profile | Link with up to five other people |
| Where it runs | Any phone browser, nothing to install | iPhone and Android apps |
| Privacy | Username, nearest town only, discreet VIP billing | Incognito mode with Majestic, screenshot blocking on chat images |
| Checks | Free ID check and live video check | Optional photo verification |
| Membership | Classic on every account; VIP and VIP Plus add more (prices) | Paid Majestic Membership, plus Pings and Uplift |
Say What You Fancy Before You Say Hello
When you join, pick man, woman, couple or CD/TRANS, then tick everyone you would like to meet. A bi man can look for men and women at once, and a couple can look for a single man, a single woman or another couple.
Tags such as Bicurious, Straight Curious, First Time Encounter, Discreet Meets and Bud Friend say where you are starting from before anyone types a word. Feeld’s Desire tags range far wider, from monogamy to ENM; ours keep to bi fun. Just starting out? Try our page on bi curious dating.
Two of You, One Profile, Twice the Fun
Couples pick Couple at sign-up and share a single profile, so you browse, flirt and plan as a pair. Add the Couple fun tag and say who you would like to meet. More than 700 couples are members, and singles can choose to meet couples.
Feeld takes another route: each person keeps their own profile and links it with up to five other people, which works well for a wider circle. For two of you flirting together, our bisexual couples page shows how it works here.
Discreet From the First Tap
There is no app to install. My Bisexual Secret opens in your phone’s browser, so nothing new lands on your home screen unless you pin it there. Members see a username, never your name, and your location reads only as the nearest town or city. VIP billing keeps our name off your bank statement.
Feeld lives in the App Store and Google Play, with an incognito mode inside the app. Here, a free ID check earns a blue tick, a moderator can confirm on a quick video check that you match your photos, and blocking is instant. Read how the site keeps you safe.
When Feeld Might Suit You Better
Feeld does plenty well. It could be your pick if:
- you want an app from the App Store or Google Play;
- you date as part of a group and want to link profiles with up to five people;
- you want 20+ gender identities and sexualities, or LGBTQIA+ Mode, which shows you only queer members;
- in-person events appeal, since Feeld’s site has an In-Person section;
- you want a huge crowd: Feeld says its community has more than 14 million open-minded people.
For bi and bi curious fun kept private, My Bisexual Secret is made for exactly that, with nearly 13,000 members, mostly men and mostly 35 or over.
Curious About the Difference?
Is Feeld good for bisexual people?
Feeld welcomes every gender and sexuality and offers 20+ sexualities to choose from. It is built for open-minded dating of every kind, whereas My Bisexual Secret is all about bi fun.
Is there a Feeld alternative for bi and bi curious people?
Yes. My Bisexual Secret is a dating site made for bi and bi curious men, women and couples. It works in your phone’s browser, couples share one profile, and tags such as Bicurious and Discreet Meets say what you want up front.
Do I need to download anything to use My Bisexual Secret?
No. It works in any phone browser. Pin it to your home screen if you want it to open like an app, or leave it off and nothing new appears there.
Can couples join My Bisexual Secret the way they join Feeld?
Yes, though it works differently. A couple shares one profile here, while on Feeld each partner keeps their own profile and links it to the others.
Curious Is Welcome Here
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