My Bisexual Secret vs BiCupid: Which Bi Site Fits?
Both are made for bi singles and couples, so the details decide.
Both are bisexual dating sites. My Bisexual Secret suits bi and bi curious singles and couples from 18 who want discreet fun in a phone browser, with one profile per couple. BiCupid, founded in 2003, suits members aged 20 and over who want apps as well as a website, with partners linked across separate accounts.
Couples Who Flirt as a Team
On My Bisexual Secret a couple signs up as Couple and runs one profile between them, so you chat and make plans together. Singles who would like to meet a couple can pick Couple when they say who they are looking for. More than 700 couples are members.
BiCupid’s Linked Partner Profiles, announced in January 2026, work the other way round: each partner keeps their own account, photos and chats, and appears on the other’s profile. Rather flirt from one place? Our page for bi couples explains the set-up.
Six Things That Set Them Apart
| What matters | My Bisexual Secret | BiCupid |
|---|---|---|
| Built for | Bi and bi curious men, women and couples, plus CD/TRANS members | Bisexual and bicurious singles and couples |
| Minimum age | 18 | 20, under its own terms |
| Couples | One profile the two of you share | Linked partner profiles on separate accounts |
| Where it runs | Your phone’s browser, no download | Apple and Android apps, plus a website |
| Checks | Free ID check, or a live video check with a moderator | Verification before video chat, audio messages or photo sharing |
| Membership | Classic for all; VIP and VIP Plus upgrades on our pricing page | Some features at no cost; full use needs a paid subscription |
Nothing on Your Statement, Nothing on Your Screen
VIP billing keeps My Bisexual Secret’s name off your bank statement. The site lives in your phone’s browser rather than an app store, so no icon appears unless you add one. Other members see a username, never your real name or email address, and your location only ever reads as the nearest town or city.
BiCupid takes the app route, with listings on the App Store and Google Play alongside its website. See how My Bisexual Secret works on your phone.
Grown-Up Company, Open From 18
Everyone on My Bisexual Secret is 18 or over, and the crowd skews grown-up: more than eight in ten members are 35 or over, and almost half are 35 to 54. Most are men, more than 500 are women, and the biggest groups live in the UK, the USA and Canada.
BiCupid’s terms set its minimum age at 20, even though its App Store rating is 18+. Still getting to grips with the labels? Read what bi curious means.
A Blue Tick Worth Looking For
Any member can take a free ID check and earn a blue tick. There is also a live video check, run by a moderator, that proves a member looks like their pictures, with no documents needed. AI and human moderators screen photos and text as they go up, and the site flags it when someone pushes to take your chat over to WhatsApp or another app.
BiCupid asks members to verify their profile before using video chat, audio messages or photo sharing. Our safety page lists everything we do to look after members.
When BiCupid Might Suit You Better
BiCupid has been around since 2003, and that much history counts for something. It could be your pick if you want apps on the App Store and Google Play as well as a website, if you and your partner would rather keep separate accounts, or if you want video chat and audio messages built in.
Want one profile for the two of you, membership from 18, discreet billing and a site that lives in your browser? You are in the right place.
Weighing Up BiCupid?
Is the Bi Cupid app the same as BiCupid?
Yes. Bi Cupid and BiCupid are the same service. Its app is listed as BiCupid: Date Singles, Couples, and it runs alongside the BiCupid website.
How old do you have to be to join BiCupid?
BiCupid’s terms say members must be at least 20, although its App Store rating is 18+. My Bisexual Secret is open to adults from 18.
Is BiCupid only for bisexual people?
BiCupid describes itself as an app designed for bisexual and bicurious singles and couples, and says it welcomes the wider LGBTQ+ community too. My Bisexual Secret is made for bi and bi curious men, women and couples, along with anyone keen to meet them.
Which has been around longer?
BiCupid, which was founded in 2003. My Bisexual Secret has been online since 2022 and has run on the HubPeople dating platform since March 2025.
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