Bisexual Dating USA: Discreet Fun, State by State
More than 3,800 members, and none of them sees your real name.
My Bisexual Secret has more than 3,800 members in the USA. Most are men, with more than 200 couples, more than 100 women and nearly 90 trans and crossdressing members among them. California has the most, more than 400, ahead of Texas, Florida, New York State and North Carolina.
Big City or Small Town, Start Here
Bi curious in NYC, wondering who's out there in Houston, or hunting for a bi dating app in Los Angeles? Our New York and Los Angeles pages go deeper on those two cities. Every profile shows a nearest town, so your daily matches can weigh up how far apart you are.
You pick who you'd like to meet, and you can pick more than one: men, women, couples or CD/TRANS members. Tags like Bud Friend, Discreet Meets and Straight Curious do the explaining for you, and our guide to bisexual dating terms decodes the rest.
More Choice in the Big States
| State | Members |
|---|---|
| California | More than 400 |
| Texas | More than 350 |
| Florida | More than 300 |
| New York State | More than 170 |
| North Carolina | More than 140 |
| Illinois | More than 120 |
| Washington State | More than 110 |
| Michigan | More than 110 |
Houston is in Texas, the second-biggest state on the site, and Chicago is in Illinois. Arizona, Indiana and Virginia have more than 100 members each as well. For the cities with pages of their own, head to our places page.
Meet a Few American Members
Members in the USA, aged 25 to 55. Thousands more are inside.
In Their Prime and Ready to Play
Nearly half of American members are aged 35 to 54, and another one in ten is 25 to 34.
Members in the USA by age.
Out and Bi in America
Same-sex couples have been able to marry nationwide since 26 June 2015, when the Supreme Court decided Obergefell v. Hodges. The bi community was organising long before that. The Bisexual Resource Center in Boston began in 1985 as the East Coast Bisexual Network and calls itself the oldest nationally focused bisexual organisation in the US. It holds a Celebrate Bisexuality Day event each September and leads Bi+ Health Awareness Month every March.
Healthy Fun and Someone to Call
PrEP, the pills or shots that lower your chance of getting HIV, is covered by most insurance plans and state Medicaid, according to the CDC. Its GetTested finder lists places near you for HIV and STI tests, including clinics with confidential low-cost or no-cost testing.
Need to talk? The LGBT National Help Center runs a national hotline, a coming out support line and a senior line for callers aged 50 and over. LGBTQ+ young people can reach The Trevor Project on 1-866-488-7386, or by texting START to 678-678. When you're ready to meet someone, our safety tips come first.
Straight Answers for Curious Americans
Can I meet bi curious guys in NYC?
Yes. More than 170 members live in New York State, and bi and bi curious guys are exactly who the site was built for. Add the Bicurious or Straight Curious tag so people know where you're starting from.
Are there members in Houston?
Texas has more than 350 members, more than any state except California. Set Houston as your town when you join and your daily matches will weigh up the distance, and VIP adds a city filter.
What's the best bi dating app in Los Angeles?
The one with the people you want to meet. With more than 400 members, California is the busiest state on the site, and it all works in your phone's browser, so there's nothing to download. Weighing up Feeld, BiCupid, Grindr or Taimi too? Our comparisons put them side by side.
Are there bi women and couples in the USA?
Yes. More than 100 women and more than 200 couples in the USA have joined. Choose them when you sign up, and your daily matches take it from there.
Say Hello, Keep It Quiet
Pick a username, set your town and start browsing American members.
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