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My Bisexual Secret: Discreet Bi Dating

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Flirty, private and strictly for over-18s.

My Bisexual Secret is a discreet dating and hookup site for bisexual and bi curious men, women and couples aged 18 and over. It has been online since 2022, runs on the HubPeople dating platform, and has nearly 13,000 members, most of them in the UK, the USA and Canada.

A Discreet Space To Explore Your Curiosity

Maybe you are bi and know exactly what you like. Maybe you are curious and wondering about a first time, or part of a couple ready for some fun. Here you can say so without a long explanation, flirt in private and arrange a meet when it feels right. Straight and curious? You are welcome too.

Want a hookup tonight, or a slow chat first? Profile tags from Chat Only to Discreet Meets let you say which. New to all this? Start with bi curious dating. Know what you want? Head for bisexual hookups.

Who You Could Meet Here

Men make up nearly nine in ten members. There are also more than 500 women, more than 700 couples and nearly 300 members who joined as CD/TRANS. Most are 35 or over, almost half are 35 to 54, and for men and women alike the biggest age group is 35 to 44.

Members live mainly in six countries:

Looking closer to home? The places page has city pages from London and Manchester to Toronto, Johannesburg, Sydney and Los Angeles.

How We Keep Your Secret

Discretion is in the name, so it starts with the basics: a username you choose instead of your real name, an email address that is never shown publicly, a location that never gets more precise than your nearest town or city, and VIP billing that leaves the site’s name off your bank statement.

Behind the scenes, AI watches for suspicious behaviour, each member has a reputation score shaped by how they behave and the feedback they get, and requests to remove unauthorised content are acted on fast. A human support team is there 24/7 by chat and messaging. The site sits on secure, PCI-compliant hosting with SSL, and the platform is involved with the Online Dating and Discovery Association. The ID checks and the rest are on our safety page.

Play Fair: Our Six House Rules

  1. 18+ only. Everyone on the site must be 18 or over. No exceptions.
  2. Be honest about who you are and what you want. Use your own photos and your real age, and say if you are after a chat, a date or a hookup.
  3. Respect a no. If someone is not interested, or changes their mind, that is the end of it.
  4. Never ask for or send money. Nobody genuine needs it. If anyone asks, for any reason, report them.
  5. Keep explicit photos for people who have asked. Flirty is fine. Anything more waits until someone says they want to see it.
  6. Report anyone who breaks the rules. Do it from inside the site and our team takes it from there.

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Honest Answers Before You Join

Is My Bisexual Secret a real dating site?

Yes. It has been online since 2022 and nearly 13,000 members have joined. Members can get a blue tick through a free ID check, and photos are screened by AI and human moderators as they are uploaded. Read is My Bisexual Secret legit for the full picture.

Who is behind My Bisexual Secret?

It is built on the HubPeople dating platform, which powers the profiles, matching, messaging and safety checks. My Bisexual Secret has been online since 2022 and moved onto HubPeople in March 2025.

Do I have to be bisexual to join?

No. The site is made for bisexual and bi curious men, women and couples and for anyone who wants to meet them. Tags such as Straight Curious, Bicurious and First Time Encounter let you say where you are.

How old do I have to be?

You must be 18 or over. Age is estimated automatically, with further checks where the law requires them.

The guides cover first experiences and bi curious questions, the comparisons put us beside Feeld, BiCupid, Grindr and Taimi, and the city pages show where members are.

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