For bi and bi curious guys
Bisexual Men: Meet Bi Guys, Women and Couples
Flirt with whoever you fancy and keep it between you.
Plenty of Men, and Room to Be Curious
My Bisexual Secret is where bisexual men meet: a discreet site made for bi and bi curious guys who want to meet men, women, couples or all three. Men make up nearly nine in ten of its more than 12,000 members. You go by a username, show only your nearest town and choose who you talk to.
Among the men, the biggest age group is 35 to 44, and more than four in ten are aged 35 to 54. Curiosity has no cut-off date.
The UK has more than 3,700 men on the site and the USA more than 3,400, so read about bi dating in the UK and in the USA. Greater London has more than 550 of them and Ontario more than 650, so our pages on London and Toronto have the local picture.
Say Hello to a Few of Our Guys
Just some of the men on My Bisexual Secret. Join to see who is closest to you.
Let Your Tags Do the Flirting
Your profile carries interest tags that say what you are after before you have typed a word. Three worth knowing:
- Bud Friend
- A regular mate to have fun with, no labels and no drama. Ideal if you would rather see the same guy again.
- Discreet Meets
- Says privacy comes first for you, so anyone who replies knows to keep things low-key from the first message on.
- Straight Curious
- For men who live a straight life and want to find out what being with a man feels like. You never have to call yourself bi to be here.
Others include First Time Encounter if you have never been with a man, Experienced meets if you have, and Chat Only if talking is all you want for now. Brand new to all of it? Our bi curious dating page is the gentle way in, or head to bisexual hookups if you already know what you want.
Men, Women, Couples: Why Choose?
Being bi means you should not have to pick a side, and here you do not. The sign-up asks who you want to meet and lets you tick more than one, so Male, Female and Couple can all go on your list. Your daily matches then take those choices into account, along with the ages you like and the distance between you.
Mostly after men? Our page on men seeking men walks through a first m4m meet step by step. Curious about women? The page for bisexual women shows the site from her side. And if a pair catches your eye, bisexual couples explains how couples set things up.
Not Out Yet? Your Secret Is Safe
Keeping this side of yourself private is fine, and the site is built for it. Nobody sees your real name or email, only your username, and if anyone makes you uneasy, block them and they can no longer see you or contact you.
The site runs in your phone’s browser, so nothing sits on your home screen unless you pin it there; our bisexual dating app page shows how. With VIP, the payment on your bank statement doesn’t carry the site’s name. A free ID check adds a blue tick to your profile, and there is more on how we keep members safe.
Already Spoken For? Privacy Covers You Too
If you have a partner at home, what you tell them, and when, is your call. You might talk it through and agree an arrangement, join together as a couple, or take some time to work out what you want first. You’ll find every honest route, with no judgement, in our guide to being bi curious with a partner.
Ask Away, We’ve Heard It All
Are there many bi men on the site?
Yes. Nearly nine in ten of more than 12,000 members are men, with the biggest numbers in the UK, the USA and Canada. The whole site is built around bi and bi curious people.
Can I meet men and women?
Yes, and couples too. Tick every option that appeals under who you want to meet, and your matches reflect each choice.
Will my profile show my name?
No. Other members only see the username you pick. Your real name and email address stay hidden, and your location appears as your nearest town or city.
How do I find bi men near me?
Every profile shows a nearest town, and your daily matches weigh up distance, so it is easy to see who is local. VIP adds search by city and distance. Our page on bisexual dating near me has more.
Can I just chat first?
Of course. Add the Chat Only tag so people know you want to talk first, and take as long as you like. More on bisexual chat.
Bi, Curious and Ready to Play?
Make your profile, tick men, women, couples or the lot, and start flirting tonight.
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