Greater London
Bisexual Dating in London: Discreet Bi Meet-Ups
Flirt in private, then pick your moment, from Soho to Dalston.
Our Biggest UK Crowd, Kept Discreet
Bisexual dating in London comes with real choice: Greater London is home to more than 650 My Bisexual Secret members, the biggest group in the UK. This guide covers the areas worth knowing, the bi socials on the calendar, the age mix, where to get tested and how to make a first meet a safe one.
Most London members are men, and the capital also has more than 40 women and more than 40 couples on the site. When you sign up you can tick men, women, couples or several at once. New to all of it? Read bi curious dating first; it starts from scratch.
Soho, Vauxhall or Dalston: Pick Your Patch
London's scene isn't in one place. These are the areas to know, and what draws people to each.
| Area | Known for | Where |
|---|---|---|
| Soho | Old Compton Street, The Admiral Duncan's cabaret, The Yard on Rupert Street | Central, around Wardour, Greek and Dean Streets |
| Vauxhall | The Royal Vauxhall Tavern, Grade II listed since 2015 | South London, in Lambeth |
| Dalston | Club nights at Dalston Superstore, Kingsland High Street | East London, in Hackney |
| Bankside | The London LGBTQ+ Community Centre and its café | Southwark, by Blackfriars station |
Old Compton Street has been a focal point for gay London since the 1970s, which makes Soho the obvious first-date pick: meet for a drink, and if it's going well, The Admiral Duncan's Saturday cabaret is on the same street. Rather keep a clear head? The community centre's café by Blackfriars, open Wednesday to Sunday, has no drink over £2 and runs sober events.
Bi Meet-Ups Across the Capital
- London Bisexuals at The Yard. This Meetup group holds its social on the fourth Thursday of each month at The Yard, 57 Rupert Street, from 7pm to 11pm, with dates already listed into 2027.
- Bi The Way, for over-50s. A monthly first-Tuesday evening social for bi and pan people over 50 at the London LGBTQ+ Community Centre, 60-62 Hopton Street, SE1.
- Bi+ speed dating. The Common Press on Stoke Newington Road held a Bi+ Speed-Dating night on 19 September 2026. Watch its events page for the next one.
- Bi Pride UK. The 2026 celebration was held at Kings Place on York Way on Saturday 29 August, from 2pm to 10pm.
Walking into a room of strangers isn't for everyone. On the site you can talk first and decide later, and bisexual chat shows how that works.
Grown-Up Company in the Capital
Read the chart and London's sweet spot is plain: 35 to 44 is the biggest band, with three in ten members, and more than half fall between 35 and 54.
Members in Greater London by age.
Never done this before? Add the First Time Encounter tag and people will know you'd rather take it slowly.
Tested, Travelling and Home Safe
56 Dean Street in Soho, run by Chelsea and Westminster Hospital NHS Foundation Trust, offers STI and HIV testing, PEP and PrEP support from two Soho sites, 56 Dean Street and Dean Street Express. It opens Monday to Saturday and closes on Sundays.
Getting about is easy on pay as you go. An Oyster card, or a contactless bank card or phone, works on buses, the Tube, the DLR, London Overground and most Elizabeth line trains, with daily and weekly caps, and Hackney, Lambeth and Southwark are all within easy reach.
For a first meet, choose a busy Soho bar over anyone's flat, make sure their profile carries the blue tick, and pay your own fare home. Our safety page has the rest.
Before You Head Into Soho
Where do bi people meet in London?
Soho is the centre, around Old Compton Street, and the London Bisexuals social meets at The Yard on Rupert Street on the fourth Thursday of each month. Online, My Bisexual Secret has more than 650 members across Greater London.
Is there bi speed dating in London?
The Common Press, 97 Stoke Newington Road, ran Bi+ Speed-Dating on 19 September 2026. Check its listings for the next date.
Is there a bi group for over 50s in London?
Yes. Bi The Way is a monthly Tuesday social for bi and pan people over 50, held at the London LGBTQ+ Community Centre on Hopton Street, by Blackfriars station.
When is Pride in London 2027?
Saturday 3 July 2027. Pride in London falls in early July, and the 2026 parade ran from Hyde Park Corner to Whitehall.
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