How it works
Bisexual Dating Features: Flirt, Chat And Meet Discreetly
Daily matches, chat rooms and private messages, all kept discreet.
Join as a man, a woman, a couple or CD/TRANS, say who you want to meet and get daily matches to flirt with. Every account can browse, post photos and send a limited number of messages a day. VIP adds unlimited messages, chat rooms and advanced search; VIP Plus puts you top of other members’ matches.
Say Who You Are And Who You Fancy
You can tick more than one box for who you want to meet. So a bi man can look for men and women, and a couple, who share one profile, can look for a single man, a woman or another couple.
Tags That Say What You Are Into
Then add the tags that fit: Bicurious, Bisexual, Straight Curious, Straight, Bud Friend, Chat Only, Couple fun, Discreet Meets, Experienced meets, First Time Encounter or One on one fun. People see what you are after before they write. The bisexual dating terms guide explains a Bud Friend, and these profile tips do the rest.
Daily Matches Picked Around You
Fresh match suggestions arrive every day, weighed on the age range you like, gender and who you want to meet, distance, recent activity, what you are looking for, drinking and smoking, and your interests. The site does the shortlisting; the spark is down to you.
Every account can browse too. VIP adds search by city, distance, experience level and what people are open to, handy when you want bi singles near you, plus a rewind for profiles you passed on and a list of everyone who likes you.
Flirt One To One, Or Join The Crowd
Classic, which comes with every account, includes a limited number of messages a day plus replies to any VIP or VIP Plus member who writes first. VIP takes the cap off.
VIP also opens the members-only chat rooms and lets you start a private group chat of up to 50 people, Classic members included. See how bisexual chat works.
Everyone can post updates and photos, comment, join polls and quizzes and earn badges (Verified, Chatterbox, Heartthrob, Most Popular) that show you are real, active and worth a reply.
On Your Phone, Nothing To Download
The site runs in the browser on any phone. Add it to your home screen and it opens like an app. The bisexual dating app page has the details.
Keep It Between Us
Other members see a username, never your real name or email, and only your nearest town or city. Blocking is instant, reporting is built in, and VIP payments never show the site’s name on your bank statement.
Any member can take a free ID check for a blue tick, or a live video check with a moderator, no documents needed. Photos and text are screened by AI and human moderators on upload, and you are alerted if someone tries to move the chat to WhatsApp. More on our safety page.
Three Ways To Play: Classic, VIP And VIP Plus
Classic covers the basics. VIP is for saying more, with no message cap. VIP Plus adds a head start, and its members can also buy a profile boost or a Super Match.
| Feature | Classic | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Profile, posts, polls and quizzes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Browse and daily matches | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| ID check and badges | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Send messages | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Unlimited messages | - | Yes | Yes |
| Advanced search filters | - | Yes | Yes |
| Members-only chat rooms | - | Yes | Yes |
| Start group chats of up to 50 | - | Yes | Yes |
| See who likes you | - | Yes | Yes |
| Rewind a swipe | - | Yes | Yes |
| Priority comment placement | - | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches | - | - | Yes |
| Priority for messages and likes | - | - | Yes |
| Top of the match stack | - | - | Yes |
Prices for every plan are on the pricing page.
Quick Answers Before You Say Hello
What does VIP add?
VIP gives you unlimited messages, advanced search, chat rooms, group chats, rewinds, a list of everyone who likes you and priority for your comments.
Can couples share a profile?
Yes. Pick Couple when you sign up and the two of you get one profile. Add the Couple fun tag so people know what you have in mind.
Can I choose to meet men and women?
Yes. You can tick more than one of men, women, couples and CD/TRANS, and your daily matches take your choice into account.
Is there an app?
Not one you download. The site works in any phone browser and can sit on your home screen like an app.
Make Your Profile, Then Make Your Move
A few minutes on your profile and your daily matches start.
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