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Bisexual Dating in Los Angeles: Discreet, Flirty Fun

Flirt from your phone, then meet in WeHo, Silver Lake or Downtown.

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Bisexual dating in Los Angeles has a big state behind it. No US state has more My Bisexual Secret members than California, with more than 400, and LA has more than 40 of its own. Scroll on to compare West Hollywood, Silver Lake and Downtown, LA's two Prides, a bi social club, the age mix, testing and the Metro.

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WeHo, Silver Lake or Downtown: Choose Your Night

West Hollywood has been its own city since November 1984, and about 40% of its residents identify as LGBT. Its scene runs along Santa Monica Boulevard. Silver Lake and Downtown are the other two names to know.

Three LA neighbourhoods, side by side
Your nightWest HollywoodSilver LakeDowntown
The barThe AbbeyAkbarPrecinct
StreetNorth Robertson BlvdWest Sunset BlvdSouth Broadway
HoursDaily to 2amDaily, 4pm to 2amTuesday to Sunday
AlsoMicky's, Santa Monica BlvdOwned by its longtime managersA short walk from the Metro A Line

For a first date, The Abbey's daytime hours and drag brunches make an easy, sociable start, since it opens by 11am every day. Akbar suits a later drink, opening at 4pm.

Two Prides, One Week Apart

Los Angeles celebrates twice. WeHo Pride, from the City of West Hollywood, ran its Street Fair on Santa Monica Boulevard on 6 and 7 June 2026, with the parade on the Sunday between Crescent Heights and San Vicente. LA Pride, from the Christopher Street West Association, brings its parade and festival to Hollywood Boulevard on the second weekend in June; in 2026 that was Sunday 14 June.

West Hollywood voted to become a city in 1984 and elected a council with an openly gay majority. If you're only now admitting your own curiosity, bi curious dating is the place to start.

amBi: A Social Club Made for Bi People

amBi describes itself as "a social club with a mission" for bisexual people, their partners and allies, and its Los Angeles chapter, #amBiLA, is one of its five most active. Its October 2026 listings included an online Biosphere meet on 19 October and the WeHo Halloween Carnaval on 31 October, and some events head out of town, to OC Pride in Santa Ana or a hike in Norco.

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More than four in ten California members are aged 35 to 54, and more than one in ten is 25 to 34.

25 to 34 12%
35 to 44 22%
45 to 54 21%
55 to 64 22%
65 and over 23%

Members in California by age.

APLA Health covers testing for STIs and HIV, plus PrEP and PEP, at several sites across LA County, among them the Michael Gottlieb Health Center in West Hollywood and a site in Long Beach.

Metro buses and trains take a TAP card, the TAP app or a tap of your bank card or phone, with daily and weekly fare caps and transfers within two hours. The A Line runs 57.7 miles from Pomona through Pasadena and Downtown to Long Beach, so Pasadena and Long Beach are a train ride from a date.

Meet the first time somewhere public such as The Abbey, keep your own TAP card on you so you can leave when you choose, and see our safety advice for the rest. Everything the site offers is on the features page.

Before You Head to WeHo

Is there a bi dating app for Los Angeles?

Yes, in effect. My Bisexual Secret opens in any phone browser and can sit on your home screen as an icon, with more than 40 members in Los Angeles and more than 400 across California.

Where is the gay area in Los Angeles?

West Hollywood, along Santa Monica Boulevard, with The Abbey on Robertson Boulevard. Silver Lake, home of Akbar, and Downtown, home of Precinct, are the other names to know.

Is there a bisexual group in LA?

Yes. amBi, a social club for bisexual people, their partners and allies, has an active Los Angeles chapter with online meets and events across the LA area.

When is LA Pride?

LA Pride is on Hollywood Boulevard on the second weekend in June. WeHo Pride is a separate event on Santa Monica Boulevard, and in 2026 the two parades were a week apart, on 7 and 14 June.

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